To the One Who Understands

As we travel down the lanes, past the big and small houses, some congested and dirty and some beautiful and exotic streets of life, we look forward more to relate with the like minds...

Like minds are the ones who understand you without much of efforts and who relate to you with equal ease, the common background in culture, religion, region etc does help but it is not the only thing that matters... There are times that travelling in some odd country, the passenger sitting next to you may be a person who may be very much known to you...

The design of life existence would not have known any boundaries..

Unfortunate part is that we are tied up with so many prejudices of a society which is ruled by scholars of the ethical and non ethical, the sensible and insensible that we never get the courage to relate to the right people...the projection of self on others and perceptions of self for others are so central thoughts that the urge to relate dies down in fighting these inhibitions..

Here ego plays a big role..living in an environment where everyone has so much of ego in terms of , I am meant fot this work...I am meant to behave like this..I am meant to be treated like this...the ego boundaries are so much tight and inflexible that they do not allow any other person to enter your periphery of personality without valid reason...so even I would like to enter and relate to a personality, I will hesitate that I shall not be taken as intruding in the private space of the other... The more we advance forward the more these boundaries are getting reinforced...

The loosening of the egos are important for everyone..the relating shall go above the specifications of the regional and cultural backgrounds.. the relating and feeling shall happen in every walk of life.

We all work in small societies..our offices and colleagues are around..how many of the people around try to know you personally ..very few, we spend so much of time with all the people in office and we know them the least...this is a degenerative environment..

Leaving alone the hypocrisy...I take resolve that I would like to connect more and more with the like minded...and would like to loosen my ego to allow others to step in any time and say Hello.