Nothing does stick...for the young and the weary..

I will write on situations of life….my experience …(so that nobody pokes holes in generalizations)….coz what I experience is Meri Marzi…

There were times when I was very young…..I had been into very sticky situations….I will not delve into the specifics as specifics of my life will be useless to you. ( they generally are except for few people who relate with you), only the experiences are useful..

Right now I am hearing this song being played somewhere…Woh pehli baar jab ham mile…, I had purchased my first computer then …I used to play this song on that…Sorry…songs take me away…I cant help it…

So sticky situations howsoever bad it may be never last... The solution or the opportunity is just around the corner…one has to be patient and be prepared to hold the opportunity.

Yes there are times when the situations are much more sticky when it is a matter of life and death…Well J then life itself is not so sticky….am not talking of those situations for now..

So no help was around…the days were as monotonous as ever…the change was far away…..hoping against the hope….there was no way that the situations could be changed.. I was completely stuck and stuck….

And guess what happened….

nothing great happened …..I kept stuck for long and very long…. …no change happened so very soon…I just had to keep patience…I started reading books (fiction that time)and living in other people’s lives…early morning started with a book….work…lunch ..book ..work…dinner…book…

I kept reading and reading…I was not living my life….but it helped me….I could live in some other world…and kept my mind alive and intact. This was my way to find a solution…there are many different ways…( don’t ever take up addiction on alcohol/drugs…you will never get out of that)

So if you get stuck (I am using You, but it is not intended to preach, only explain) .…then do not loose patience…..live in what is around ..or what you can find around to live with…and just hope and believe….Believe ….Yes it is very strong word…You can not hope if you do not believe…believe that things are going to be fine with you…You are so special to God…or to Nature….or whomsoever you believe in…Life is a precious gift given to you…and above all…. the gift of Life is given to you and is not affected/dependent on the People….Circumstances….Situations….Not even your parents, siblings, spouses, children, friends, acquaintances…NO ONE…no one but the One who has given you the gift can only have control on your gift…It is yours and only yours to cherish.

So that is it... I am here to tell you that, You are going to Get what you want….have patience…everything will fall in right place and right time…till that time..Enjoy and live in peace.